Making sense of it when we win and when we lose

splitting belief in oneself into six layers
2025-11-26 08:21 // updated 2026-02-16 13:01

Lining up these layers to make a "matrix of gaming sentiments" (take this with a grain of salt):

table
LayerHow we felt whenIf we won, it'sIf we lost, it's
6we knew we would win"business as always""because someone rigged the game"
5we had great odds"a given""politics and bullshit"
4we had a chance of winning"our hard work""a tough loss"
3we were still in it"luck on our side""us not them"
2we had a slim chance of winning"like winning the jackpot""a given"
1we had no chance of winning"God's will""business as always"
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